Seven in ten Brits favour being 'civil' with neighbours over forming close bonds

Millions of Brits don't know the names of their neighbours - with 69% preferring to be 'civil' rather than 'close'. A poll of 2,000 homeowners and renters found despite living in close proximity to others, only 55% only actually know what to call their neighbours when they bump into them. Although previous conversations have been had about family, jobs and schooling, 21% adnit they can't remember any of it and so avoid pleasantries as much as possible

However, 27% admit friendlier neighbours could help with feelings of loneliness. Nine in ten Gen-Z said being part of a community is important to them - the highest of any other generation, and 23% would prefer a closer relationship with their neighbour.

Johnny Caddick, chief executive of rental brand MODA, which commissioned the research, said: "A sense of community can have a real impact on how happy people feel in their homes, yet our survey shows many still don't even know their neighbours' names.

"It's a reminder that modern life can make it harder to connect, even when we live side by side. By creating opportunities to meet and share experiences, we can help make those everyday moments of recognition and support feel more natural.

"Small connections, a chat in the lift or by the front door, are what turn a building into a neighbourhood. The research highlights how much people value that, and how many would like more of it."

If a new neighbour moved in, 41% of all respondents would say hello if they crossed paths - but not go out of their way to do it.

Of those who would like a better relationship with those living nearby, the top thing stopping them is not wanting to seem intrusive (42%). While 34% assume other people wouldn't be interested in getting to know them.

But 34% would be encouraged to make conversation if they knew they shared similar interests, and 26% might do so at a shared community event.

Almost half of renters (45%) said a new resident programme would make it easier to get know neighbours compared to 38% of homeowners, according to the OnePoll.com figures.

Johnny Caddick for MODA added: "The survey underlines something we've known for a long time. People want to feel part of a community, but too often the structures to make that happen just aren't there.

"That's a gap we need to bridge if we want people to feel settled and supported where they live. Neighbourliness is about more than being polite, it's the foundation of feeling safe, connected and included.

"The findings show how much appetite there is for stronger connections, and it's clear that modern housing needs to do more to make that possible.

"When people are given the right spaces and opportunities to come together, they don't just share a postcode, they share a community."